The greatest insights come from listening. Paying attention to understand the ‘why” behind what is being said is real listening. It is more than not interrupting or waiting for your turn to talk, listening to understand takes practice and discipline to support and connect with your coachees for increased performance and engagement.
Course Outcomes:
1. Adjust easily to the coachee’s agenda
2. Hear the coachee’s expectations about what is and is not possible
3. Confirm understanding by observing and interpreting non-verbal signals (e.g., body language, facial expressions, tone of voice, etc.)
4. Use positive body language and non-verbal signals to demonstrate openness and undivided attention
5. Demonstrate active listening by seeking clarification, rephrasing the coachee’s statements and summarizing to check understanding
6. Encourage the coachee to “say more”–create a positive climate for the coachee to express his/her feelings, perceptions, concerns, suggestions, etc.
7. Acknowledge the coachee’s ideas and suggestions and build on them in discussions
8. Offer non-judgmental responses that encourage the coachee to explore and validate his/her feelings, concerns and aspirations
9. Use silence as an appropriate intervention to elicit more information
10. Listen to the coachee’s emotional undercurrents
11. Pay attention to what the coachee isn’t saying about issues discussed